Nothing is black and white,
Everything is gray.

Polarity of mind is a very dangerous thing, as all things in life are in a spectrum- very few things exist in the extreme ends. 

Living life with a polar mind is like walking around with blinders on, you will not be able to see what is just outside of your very small window.

"you can't place blame, because blame is far too messy."
                                            -Ani DiFranco